I’m not a big New Years Resolution person. I’ve always made some kind of list of your regular stuff, but never really tried to check stuff off.
This year as we were on the 12 hour drive home from NY, the hubs and I were chatting about goals and the people we want to be. There are definitely things I see in myself that I want to change. I know there always will be, but now is a good time to write them down to have a reminder of those specific things.
My biggest thing that I want to do better this year?
Relax. Not the ‘sit on the couch and watch Real Housewives’ kind, but more towards my kids. I want to let my boys be boys. Muddy clothes, messy rooms and pantries disheveled by snack searchers are only for a short time. I’ve been spending too much time cleaning and worrying about messes when I should be playing and giggling with my boys.
And that’s about it for now. I’m taking baby steps to become the person I want to be. The results aren’t measurable, but I hope to look back at the end of the year and see that I have improved.
On a lighter note, there are some fun little things that I would like to do before I turn 30 (gah!) this year. I think I’ll start a 30 before 30 project to check some things off my bucket list!